Monday, January 4, 2010

January Selection: "Rashi's Daughters: Book 1, Joheved"


A Novel of Love and the Talmud in Medieval France by Maggie Anton

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I will review this book in my sermon at Beth Yeshurun, Friday night, Jan. 29, 6 p.m.


Rashi (an acronym made from the first letters of his name, Rabbi Shlomo Yitzhaki) has been and continues to be regarded as the greatest commentator on the Torah and Talmud in history. It is literally impossible to study either text without referring to his explanations and insights, and to say that he is venerated is an understatement.

Yet what is little mentioned is that Rashi was not only an extraordinary scholar, but a husband and father, and to not one but three daughters — Miriam, Joheved and Rachel — each of whom married Talmudic scholars.

While hardly any facts have survived about Rashi's daughters, many legends speak about their piety and, even more, about how they broke from conventional expectations (or lack of them) for 11th Century Jewish women.

What drew me to Maggie Anton's wonderful trilogy (a book on each daughter) is the way she describes what it must have been like to live in the French Jewish community of those days; to have had the great Rashi for a father; and what the day-to-day life of Jewish women must have been. Maggie Anton has beautifully blended everything she has learned about this period in Jewish history with a refreshingly original story that will interest and absorb every reader.

Anton is a remarkable writer, and this book of exceptional fiction has been widely praised in both Jewish and general circles. In recommending it to general libraries, Library Journal compares Rashi's Daughters with Anita Diamont's wonderful The Red Tent in the way "
it delves into rituals of women who were forgotten by history and marginalized by society."

I loved Rashi's Daughters, and I truly believe you will, too. (Our Jewish Book Circle will only be reading Vol. 1, on Joheved; I am looking forward to reading the 2nd and 3rd parts of the trilogy as well on my own!)

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Our December Selection: "Have a Little Faith"

By Mitch Albom

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I will review this book in my sermon at Beth Yeshurun, Friday night, Dec. 18, 6 p.m.


It might seem strange recommending a current best-seller as a selection for our Jewish Book Circle, but from the moment I started reading Mitch Albom’s new book, Have a Little Faith, I realized there was something very significant and touching about it, in a way that I had not anticipated.

Mitch Albom’s earlier books have all been bestsellers, and I would agree that Tuesdays with Morrie was particularly good. But in his newest book, Albom strikes a very Jewish chord and finds himself answering a Yom Kippur-type question: If someone asked you to write his eulogy, what would you write? Where would you begin? And how would you reconcile the person's public persona with his personal, private side?

This was the challenge Albom faced when his own rabbi, the now-deceased Albert Lewis, made such a request of Mitch. At first, Albom was dumbstruck. Rabbi Lewis had been a god-like creature all Albom’s life. Now he was being asked to sit with his rabbi and prepare for the day when his teacher would die and he, a writer of popular books, would be called upon to “size him up” and make sense of his extraordinary life.

Little wonder I was personally so affected by this book – and not just because it's about a rabbi. No, it's more than that; it's really about all of us and how we measure one another's worth. In so many ways, this bestseller is truly worthy of its sales ranking in the way it speaks to not only Jews but people of all faiths. Have a Little Faith is a little gem.

Friday, November 27, 2009

"Sarah's Key" Review

As someone who has always been passionate about reading, it seemed natural for me to start a Jewish Book Circle in order to share that love of books with members of our congregation and community. And though my original plan was to select solid non-fiction books about Jewish themes, I was convinced to start with a highly-praised work of fiction, Sarah’s Key, by the French writer Tatiana de Rosnay.

One of the ground rules I set for our Jewish Book Circle is that anything we select has to be not only interesting but have significance. It has to be serious, we have to learn something from it, whether it is fiction or non-fiction.

Sarah’s Key is just such a book. Though I finished it a few weeks ago, I am still thinking about it and have the feeling it will always linger within me. “It will make you cry – and remember,” wrote the New York Times reviewer, a sentiment with which I concur wholeheartedly.

As someone who has read widely about the Holocaust over the years, I am ashamed to say Sarah’s Key describes an event I knew nothing about but should have.

We’ve all seen the old movies of Hitler strutting through Paris, touring his conquest. But few of us have asked what happened to the Jews of that same city and of France. In 1942, they were rounded up not by SS troops but by French police, who were assigned the task to make it easier for the Germans. The French police, with whom the Jews of Paris had enjoyed cordial relations before, now exhibited an indifference to human suffering and a measure of brutality wholly unexpected.

Squeezed into a small stadium in the center of Paris, thousands of Jews were held under the most ghastly conditions while waiting to be ultimately deported to a local camp and then on to Auschwitz.

Sarah’s Key describes that roundup through the eyes of young Sarah, an 11-year-old Jewish girl who lives with her parents and younger brother in the Jewish section of Paris. When the French police come for the family, the father is away, and Sarah convinces her mother that her little brother is with him.

The reality is otherwise. Thinking the family will be returning home in just a few hours, Sarah has locked her little brother in a cupboard with plenty of food and water for the day. Inside her pocket is the key which will be used to release him as soon as they get back that night.

But they will not be coming back, and Sarah’s key haunts the young girl as her extraordinary journey grows longer and longer.

But running alongside the story of Sarah and her own experience is a parallel story which takes place 60 years later, a story that at first appears to be disconnected, but predictably becomes intertwined with Sarah’s.

In the second story, a middle-aged woman named Julia, born in America but living in 2002 in Paris with her French husband, is assigned by her publisher to write a story about the 60th anniversary of the deportation.

Her interest and outrage grows as she learns more about the complicity of the French police and people in allowing the inhumane treatment of more than 13,000 Jews, including thousands of children; and as she learns, too, about the way Sarah’s life intersected that of her husband’s family 60 years earlier.

Though the author’s descriptions of what the Jews endured while interned in Paris is harsh, the book is not grisly. And as the two stories begin to intersect, ponderous questions are raised that not only rattle the characters but us the readers.

It is, for example, impossible not to ask – both from Sarah’s story and from Julia’s – how we might have acted had we been Christian Parisians who faced the moral dilemma of assisting Jews, knowing the dangers it might have brought us and our own families.

Sarah’s Key is filled with people who looked the other way or worse, and with people as well who surely would deserve a place on the Avenue of the Righteous at Yad Vashem.

It is not a new question, but as always, when it comes to moral dilemmas, it becomes more complicated when the people involved have names and faces with whom we identify and care about.

The book asks another painful question, too: What right do we have to tell people things that we think they should know, even when such things will almost certainly cause them pain? Should we, for example, in our own lives, tell a friend that her husband is cheating on her? Is that our obligation? Our right? Or should we be silent. Can we?

Those who have given negative reviews of Sarah’s Key have based their disappointment on precisely this. And yet, as you will see when you read this extraordinary book, the way this is developed by Tatiana de Rosnay is both poignant and very human. Yet the question persists, not just for the characters in the book, but for us even today.

I took from this book, too, a clearer understanding of why so many Holocaust survivors struggled for so long after their liberation before they could begin talking about what they experienced. As a child growing up in the 50’s and 60’s, I was not exposed to survivors as our children are today. In those post-war years, Holocaust memoirs were scarce; Holocaust museums were scarcer.

The normal inclination of people who have been through a great ordeal is to tell everyone about it – but it was not so with survivors of the Holocaust. Many chose explicitly to remain quiet and many are uncomfortable telling their stories even today, while others are now able to go out into the community and speak to schools or teach at the local Holocaust museum.

In Sarah’s Key, we can better understand the reticence; we can understand the silence. And at the same time, we can appreciate the courage it has taken for those who experienced such things to speak about them again and again and again.

I once asked a Holocaust survivor in our congregation if he ever felt guilty at having survived when other members of his family did not. “No,” he said, “not guilty. But I feel a responsibility to make sure what happened to them is never forgotten – and never happens again.”

For some, though, there was a feeling of guilt, like the guilt of the mother in Sophie’s Choice over having to decide which child to save and which child to let die.

Sarah’s Key confronts this issue in its own way, on its own terms, and even though it is fiction, I knew reading it that the events it described were played out in real life by so very many.

It has been a long time since I read a novel that not only educated me, but grabbed me and moved me like Sarah’s Key. Anyone who reads it, I think, will be deeply rewarded.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Our November Selection: "Sarah's Key"

By Tatiana de Rosnay

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I will review this book in my sermon at Beth Yeshurun, Friday night, Nov. 27, 6 p.m.

Deciding which book should be the inaugural selection of our new Jewish Book Circle wasn't easy. I received many, many suggestions, both as posts on this blog and via individual emails. The most popular suggestion was Songs for the Butcher's Daughter; however, because it is being read by several other reading circles in town, I decided to go a different direction by selecting another book which also comes highly recommended, Tatiana de Rosnay's wonderful Sarah's Key.

Here's what Publisher's Weekly had to say about this powerful novel: "De Rosnay's U.S. debut fictionalizes the 1942 Paris roundups and deportations, in which thousands of Jewish families were arrested, held at the Vélodrome d'Hiver outside the city, then transported to Auschwitz. Forty-five-year-old Julia Jarmond, American by birth, moved to Paris when she was 20 and is married to the arrogant, unfaithful Bertrand Tézac, with whom she has an 11-year-old daughter. Julia writes for an American magazine and her editor assigns her to cover the 60th anniversary of the Vél' d'Hiv' roundups. Julia soon learns that the apartment she and Bertrand plan to move into was acquired by Bertrand's family when its Jewish occupants were dispossessed and deported 60 years before. She resolves to find out what happened to the former occupants: Wladyslaw and Rywka Starzynski, parents of 10-year-old Sarah and four-year-old Michel. The more Julia discovers—especially about Sarah, the only member of the Starzynski family to survive—the more she uncovers about Bertrand's family, about France and, finally, herself. Already translated into 15 languages, the novel is De Rosnay's 10th (but her first written in English, her first language). It beautifully conveys Julia's conflicting loyalties, and makes Sarah's trials so riveting, her innocence so absorbing, that the book is hard to put down."

The reviews of Sarah's Key have been uniformly glowing. Some examples:

"A haunting, riveting novel... This book grabs your heart in the opening chapter, and its scenes and characters stay with you long after you finish." —Publishers Weekly, a PW 2008 Staff Pick

“Masterly and compelling, it is not something that readers will quickly forget. Highly recommended.” —Library Journal, Starred Review

“A powerful novel… Tatiana de Rosnay has captured the insane world of the Holocaust and the efforts of the few good people who stood up against it in this work of fiction more effectively than has been done in many scholarly studies. It is a book that makes us sensitive to how much evil occurred and also to how much willingness to do good also existed in that world.” —Rabbi Jack Riemer, South Florida Jewish Journal

“This is a remarkable historical novel... it's a book that impresses itself upon one's heart and soul forever.” –Naomi Ragen, author of The Saturday Wife

As you read the book, you are invited to post reactions on this blog or read those submitted by others. At our Friday night service Nov. 27, I will speak about Sarah's Key and, needless to say, it would be a pleasure to have you there. Along the way, I may post some observations of my own; feel free to agree or disagree!

I hope you enjoy our Jewish Book Circle's first selection and, as before, I'm open to suggestions for December and upcoming months.

—Rabbi Rosen


Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Welcome to the Jewish Book Circle

A wonderful joke is told about a rabbi who, on the occasion of his retirement, tells his congregation that he now looks forward to finishing his book. "Rabbi," the excited congregation replies, "we didn't know you were writing a book." To which the Rabbi replies: "Not writing - READING!"

All of us are so very busy that the books we want to read more often than not end up in a big stack somewhere at work or home. What we may need is a gentle push, something I hope to provide through the Jewish Book Circle. Each month we will face the task of reading one significant Jewish book together, and we will have a chance to share that experience through postings here on this blog. (A blog is simply a website where everyone can read what everyone writes. If you're new to blogs, you'll catch on quickly!)

The books we read will be largely non-fiction but occasionally a particularly noteworthy piece of fiction will slip through. We'll try to avoid overly-long books, too, which can be daunting, as well as books that are too academic. We'll also favor books available in less-expensive softcover editions, but not always. We do, after all, want to read really interesting stuff, and not always wait for the paperback version to arrive.

So welcome to the Jewish Book Circle! I look forward to your suggestions, book ideas and, most of all, postings as we explore some truly great Jewish books! Please check back Nov. 1 for our first selection.

—Rabbi Rosen